"She can't do that..." "He has to understand that..." "He can't say that..." "She has to change that..." We've all uttered these sentiments, or something in a similar vein, at one time or another. Perhaps we say them as a longing for connection, a desire to be understood, a hope for validation or a plea … Continue reading The Counter-Intuitiveness of Choice
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Who Said It’s Supposed to be Easy?
One of the biggest lies our culture tells us is that love, if it's "right," should be easy. We see Facebook quizzes and online articles reporting specific ways of knowing and promoting easy love. We scan celebrity Instagrams and friends' Snapchats, all highlighting this "right" sort of love, making it look easy while vacationing or … Continue reading Who Said It’s Supposed to be Easy?
Four Seeds Counseling 